Which do you think is better: A guy who lets his girlfriend do what makes her happy, like dancing and performing or even something as simple as an exercise class just because she wants to do it for fun, or a guy who loves his girlfriend so much he hates when guys look at her so he tries to convince her not to do these things she loves. Wouldn't it make sense that, if he really loved her, he'd care more about her happiness?
Thank you for your question. It’s incredibly important to fully support and encourage one’s partner as they pursue their dreams and do things that make them happy.
It’s unacceptable to keep someone from doing things they love and that lead their lives in a positive direction. When someone keeps another person from doing things they enjoy it’s usually a sign of jealousy, unhappiness, insecurity or control issues and it has a negative effect on the relationship.
The idea in any healthy relationship is to be with someone who encourages and loves that fact that you’re you and you’re doing things that make you happy.