Hi. I was just wondering if you could help me with my situation. How do I help my boyfriend in forgetting and forgiving me over my wrongdoings in the past?
Thank you for sharing your situation. One of the big lessons in any relationship is that you can’t do anything to change how people think or act, only they can do that.
The past is the past and we can’t do anything to change it. The only thing we can change is how we behave now. It’s up to your boyfriend to decide if he can deal with his own issues. It’s up to you to deal with yours.
You might find it beneficial to think about what kind of relationship you want and how you want to be treated. You deserve to be with someone who accepts you for who you are now.
Once you’ve thought about who you are and what you want you can talk calmly and kindly with your boyfriend and let him know. It’s OK to stand up for yourself and celebrate your positive behaviors. You can’t do anything about how he behaves but you can move your life in any direction you want.
You get to decide what kind of person you want in your life and keep in mind that it’s always a good idea to find someone who builds you up. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who values the real you and helps you feel great. You’re worth it.